About me:
I'm John, I'm handsome(ish), sexy, naughty, flirtateous, honest and above all, caring! I'm 5 feet 4 inches, stocky build. Daft as a brush, very witty, very friendly, I have my own... Car, teeth, hair, house, wheelchair, business, charm and spark and various other wonderful attributes that make me just too adorable, wonderfully desireable and just a little bit too indespensible! lol
I'm totally barmy and loony and a little bit spontaneous and really quite friendly. I'd like to think that, I'm warm, caring, people orientated and a good listener, I'm tactile and loving too (I lurves me cuddles!).
I believe in acting promptly and 'grasping' situations' that could change my life for the better. If I see someone or something, I like, I obtain it, or tell that person, I'm keen on them and also let them know why. If I don't tell you, you're gorgeous, someone else may get there first and we may miss our perfect relationship? I 'don't let the grass grow under my feet'.
You may be slightly surprised by my sponteniety, if I contact you, but heck, I'm here to find love and you are as well, most likely? I also want to make YOU feel good and wanted, while I look for my 'Miss Congeniality'.
I've got various hobbies and interests, from folk music, to joinery/woodwork, politics (mainly yellin at the News) and disability campaigning, pc's and techie stuff, (I also offer advice to folks that are maybe a little less able to grasp how pc's and software works). I also repair and service, manual and power chairs! .. that got your attention, eh? ha ha
I really enjoy tv shows that demonstrate how things work and how to build and make things, I also enjoy science programmes too. ... But heck, you can't beat a good movie, curled up on the sofa with the girl of your dreams, wrapped in your arms! :-)
I'm quite a wee guy, at 5'4", I'd hope any prospective partner was not a lot taller than I am. However, I've yet to meet anyone as tall as 5'4" who's sitting down in a wheelchair! .... That's not to say I'm looking specifically for a wheelchair using partner, they're just easier to dance and cuddle with! :-) Amazonian women in thigh length boots are equally encouraged to pop by and say hello, however, they must ensure that their whip is working, before making contact? :-))
I've a fairly terrible concentration, so, I'm not much of a movie buff. I do enjoy an acassional game of football/soccer on tv, tho. I also love to chat and gossip! heck yeah, let's talk about ..."did you hear about what ... did to ....", especially if we both know them and ... it's scandalous! ooh! :-)
I have Spina Bifida, (it doesn't have me!, I dictate life, not it!) and use a wheelchair and my car to get around, I'm independant, live alone, have my own flat, car, teeth, some hair (it's receding! lol), personality, business and wit and charm.
Contact me to learn a little more about me, although, I think the bulk of it's here? lol ... Your prize will be; a committed, honest, fun-loving guy, who will make you smile, laugh, happy, and contented. I'll also do all I can to make sure you feel wanted, safe and secure in a relationship, however, you're paying for the first coffee he he!
I've no doubt I'll re-edit this profile in the coming days and weeks, so, please consider this information, as a simple intro, for now :-)
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Looking for:
I'm particularly looking to meet a woman/women, aged 25-45, you'll have a breezy and scatty attitude to life? Few worldly cares, an open mind and attitude, willing to share new plans, ideas and experiences and let me share yours too?
I'd also hope, you're independantly minded and that we can share friends in common, but comfortable enough to know, we can also take the opportunity to be able to do our own things, and not 'live in each others' pockets'? I've had situations in the past, where partners basically lived through me and jealousy ensued when I'd see female friends, to my mind, that's not too healthy! it's worth noting, most of my close friends are female, so, potential jealousy is a 'turn-off' for me!
If I'm considering a relationship, I prefer women who have a cuddlier/fullsome body type. However, it's your mind and gorgeous eyes, I'm really after! I'd also prefer to meet someone who's already familiar with some of the issues that can arise from Spina Bifida?
I adore women who are able to hold their own in conversation and are not shy or scared to introduce me to new ideas. plans and ways of thinking and basically, shake me by the boots!
Are you hopefully considering a longer term relationship? I am too, however, every relationship needs a starting point, and I appreciate a long relationship is borne out of trust, confidence and liking for each other and that all important love and lust too.
I also joined this site to increase my circle of friends. In this case, your looks are naturally less important, in this case. I'd love to hear from people simply looking for online friends and/or local buddies, if we live close-by? People who maybe want a chat over the net, someone to flirt online with, become snail-mail buddies, cam chat, or maybe the chance to go for a drink and/or meal together, if we're local to each other? If you want to be friends/mates... Your friendship, personality and integrity are considered most important .
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