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Meet, flirt and match with new disabled singles daily.

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Exciting and fun. We've matched thousands of couples since 2002. Connecting the disabled community around the world!

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Trusted Disabled Dating

Since 2002, Whispers4u disabled dating service has been helping disabled singles find love online

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Abled or Disabled

No disability? - No problem!
We don't discriminate! Able-bodied members with open minds are welcome, enabling the best chance to find love.

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Mobility - Not An Issue!

Whispers4u is accessible and easy to use on any device. Flirt & chat on the move!


New Members Daily. We like to keep things fresh!

With hundreds of new singles joining every week with conditions such as Cerebral Palsy, Multiple Sclerosis, Learning Difficulties, Spina Bifida, Amputations and Wheelchair Users, we are the premier online disabled dating site. But don't just take our word for it, read what some of our ex-singles say in our Disabled Dating Success Stories.

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Why Join Us?

Over the years, many disabled singles have connected through our unique dating service and have been married as a result. Our members say that meeting someone here is far more comfortable than on regular dating sites, as you don't have to start explaining any mobility issues or conditions you may have, to a prospective partner.

We manually review profiles, and remove or relegate low quality profiles. Scammers and fraudsters whom often frequent dating sites are almost immediately detected and deleted, as we constantly monitor our systems and moderate our member profiles.

We provide a safe and fun way to meet new and exciting people, that already understand there may be difficulties to overcome should cupids arrow strike!

Backed by one of the worlds largest dating companies, we provide round the clock support, both via email and telephone should ever you need us.

Awards Nomination - Best Niche Dating Site

In 2016 we were a nominated finalist at the prestigious online dating industry, iDate Awards ceremony

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Premium Features

For a small upgrade price, we also offer live audio and webcam video chat with our disabled members.

Our matching software will actively promote members to you based on the quality of your profile. It's worth taking the extra time to say a few words about yourself. The better the quality of your profile, the better chance you have of finding a suitable match.

We have thousands of free & single disabled women and men from the USA, UK, Canada, Australia and all over Europe waiting to chat online right now!

If you are seeking someone with a specific disability such as an Amputee, then using our easy search tools will find the person that's right for you, instantly!

If you want Gay Disabled Dating then we also have hundreds of disabled gay men on our database. Simply select "Male seeking Male" on our easy registration form!

We're free to join for trial members, and you can instantly start to send and receive messages should you decide to upgrade your account.

Working in association with Channel 4's Undateables

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Whispers4u have teamed up with the producers of Channel 4’s documentary about disabled people looking for love - "The Undateables"!

We are giving our members the chance to take part.

If you are interested and want to know more please email to undateables@betty.co.uk - Make sure you mention Whispers4u.com when you speak to them!

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